TOBIAS: Yes, indeed, each transition experience is difficult and in the context of what was mentioned here, understand that there are two sides of the veil. For the human self who is dying and still continuing to hold onto the human dimension, it is indeed harrowing. Humans have been taught that when they die there is either judgement or nothing. They attempt to hold on for as long as possible. This experience of going through the doorway, so to speak, will bring up the greatest fears in the human, will bring up the greatest terrors. Many, many we hate to say, hold on so closely to their human concepts that they stand in line even now, even after they have crossed over, waiting to be judged by the one they call Jesus, waiting for Judgement Day. What they are truly doing in this state is a self-evaluation but it is not needed. They are punishing and judging themselves. It is a harrowing experience. When the human consciousness, the human grip, is finally released, there is great relief. When they understand that they have not died, there is not a jury on our side waiting to judge them, there is not a place of hell where they will burn forever, there is overwhelming joy at this point. There is tremendous release, and generally at that time is when this spirit of that soul then says, "I’ll go back."
QUESTION: Tobias, I’m a little confused about something. It seems like with the tragic incidents that have happened where, for example, a couple of young boys have killed a lot of other students, a mother kills her children, people who are in abusive relationships… it seems like there is a lot of sympathy and prayer that goes to the victims, but if we are really truly all one, isn’t it just as important to look past the mask that they wear and connect with their God selves?
TOBIAS: Indeed it is, my dear, indeed it is. This is an interesting human paradox. It ties into what we addressed earlier tonight that you as the human for all of these lifetimes had your angel guides but you did not want to look at the fact that you also had your dark angels. There was the desire at your level to deny that existence, to say that the darkness did not occur. Therefore, many have become unbalanced because they were not willing to look at both sides. In the examples that you give also indeed there is holiness in both sides of the equation, the victim and the one who perpetrates the crime. There is no mistake here. These things are agreed to by both parties, perhaps not always planned in advance but always agreed to at that moment in time. There is tremendous judgement in the human mind relating to "right" and "wrong." As each of you here tonight and reading these words will come to understand, judgement is a restriction and a barrier. You will begin to understand that it took equal amounts of light and dark to make this experience of Earth work properly. There was tremendous denial. There is still tremendous denial. If you walk from this hall on this night giving prayer to those who make crime, you will not be understand. (This will not be the first time this has happened to you.) But you are absolutely correct in understanding and honoring the relationship. Tonight as we walked you through the experience of seeing all the aspects of your past lives walk through the gateway to ascension, to be released from their old bonds… and we said at the end of this procession were the three or more of the dark angels that have always been around… and as you watched them walk through the gateway, you saw a circle of light and love around them. This was surprising because you thought they were always dark. There is much that each of you here will learn about the supposed darkness. Now there is much judgement around what that is, and my friends, it is not at all what you think it is. As you open your mind, as you release and as you do "NO-thing," you will come to understand that all, all is part of God’s love, all is part of God’s creation. We truly thank you for your question.
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